That takes quite a bit of talent, to be someone who gives peace to others, to be able to lighten things when they seem on the darker side. One needs to get rid of calculative ways of thinking. One needs to open their hearts unconditionally. One needs to have the desire and thinking patterns that enable them for good behaviour. That doesn’t come easy, often art and spirituality help but in the right hands and right ways. Just thinking quietly here, it is not easy to be that someone that you want to be surrounded with, that you do not dread to spend time around. Curious yet not nosey , respectful yet not uncaring, loving yet humble, knowledgeable yet not snobbish, mannerly yet not boring… To be that someone, are you close?